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  • Interlude between one and two

    I started talking to guys in the PNW. I knew as soon as I could pack up the kids and get the Hell out of OK, I was going to. No reason not to. The ex hadn’t bothered to see the kids but a handful of times in months, despite having to basically pass our…

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  • Not exactly a ‘good’ girl

    Ok, folks, story time. So, to be perfectly honest…. After we had been separated for a few months, well in all but name for 7, and I found out that he had taken ‘her and her kids’ 2000 miles home to meet the family, I got mad. I decided I wanted to have some fun,…

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  • A slight change of pace.

    Ok, this is what is happening now, in real time. I haven’t said much about who I am now, or what I do. I just really haven’t addressed it. I know a while back that I mentioned (a few times) that I am a social worker. Obviously, I work with children (and some adults) with…

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  • The second wave of destruction

    He came begging me to not send the letter(s). Did I not realize what would happen to him if I did? His career would be over! Yeah, well, I was over a lot at that point. But, and here it is folks…. “If I end up with a dishonorable discharge and end up in the…

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  • Where I left off… Kicked him out, he moved in with her, and things got messy(er). So, kicked him out and told him to get his shit together before he came back. Spoiler. He didn’t, get his shit together that is. Now the way I found out that he had moved in with the whore…

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  • And the saga continues, again

    Present day, Sept. 19 2024 I came to the writing at the end of the previous blog. So many things have happened since. That story ended in 1999-2000. But the ending of it…. Once I discovered that he was living with that whore, and yes I will detail why that title is deserved in a…

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  • Ft. Sill, OK is not ok

    June 2016 Ft. Sill and the Whore So, we went to Ft. Sill, Oklahoma. What a lovely, hot, snake filled place. The snakes were not only slithered on the ground, but also walked on two legs, and in uniforms. We bought a house when we first got there. We figured that like Ft. Lewis, we would…

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  • Ex-husband #1 saga continues

    Ex husband #1 continued… So, he went to Korea for the first time in Nov. of 1993. The kids and I moved in with his parents for the next year. It was a very long year. His mom and I spent a lot of time working things out and actually almost became friends. We played…

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  • My ex-mother in law

    July…. 2012 or 2013 My ex mother in-law is currently dying. She has been sick for a while, but has taken a turn for a the worse lately.  My daughter stayed with her Auntie for two weeks helping to take care of her grandmother. She did very well holding it together despite that side of the family…

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  • Skipping ahead in time

    April 2013 In a nut shell… Things have changed in the last several months. I no longer work for the For.Profit. YEAH! and Boo. I started my own business with my besty and  started to take cases on our own. They discovered this a month later and fired me. Their reason that they told me was…

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