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  • And the FBI is on My PORCH

    My pregnancy moved along. I had a scare at Christmas time. I was bleeding and made a quick trip into my Gyno. All was good, but I needed to stay on bedrest for a few days. Good thing I had a week off of school. But this did necessitate telling people I was pregnant. I…

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  • Husband #2, What I Saw

    We arrived in my hometown (no, I’m not going to specify just in case someone I actually know reads this). I was so happy to see my kids, and my folks. Everyone was happy to see me. ER not so much. My parents thought that we were moving too fast. To be honest, we were.…

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  • This is a story I really don’t want to tell. It ends both badly and with my third greatest gift. After we had been talking for a couple of months, husband #2, I guess I’ll call him ER, suggested that he come and help us move. I felt like I was out of options at…

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  • Interlude between one and two

    I started talking to guys in the PNW. I knew as soon as I could pack up the kids and get the Hell out of OK, I was going to. No reason not to. The ex hadn’t bothered to see the kids but a handful of times in months, despite having to basically pass our…

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  • Not exactly a ‘good’ girl

    Ok, folks, story time. So, to be perfectly honest…. After we had been separated for a few months, well in all but name for 7, and I found out that he had taken ‘her and her kids’ 2000 miles home to meet the family, I got mad. I decided I wanted to have some fun,…

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  • A slight change of pace.

    Ok, this is what is happening now, in real time. I haven’t said much about who I am now, or what I do. I just really haven’t addressed it. I know a while back that I mentioned (a few times) that I am a social worker. Obviously, I work with children (and some adults) with…

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  • The second wave of destruction

    He came begging me to not send the letter(s). Did I not realize what would happen to him if I did? His career would be over! Yeah, well, I was over a lot at that point. But, and here it is folks…. “If I end up with a dishonorable discharge and end up in the…

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  • Where I left off… Kicked him out, he moved in with her, and things got messy(er). So, kicked him out and told him to get his shit together before he came back. Spoiler. He didn’t, get his shit together that is. Now the way I found out that he had moved in with the whore…

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  • And the saga continues, again

    Present day, Sept. 19 2024 I came to the writing at the end of the previous blog. So many things have happened since. That story ended in 1999-2000. But the ending of it…. Once I discovered that he was living with that whore, and yes I will detail why that title is deserved in a…

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  • Ft. Sill, OK is not ok

    June 2016 Ft. Sill and the Whore So, we went to Ft. Sill, Oklahoma. What a lovely, hot, snake filled place. The snakes were not only slithered on the ground, but also walked on two legs, and in uniforms. We bought a house when we first got there. We figured that like Ft. Lewis, we would…

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